Intimacy starts outside of the bedroom

I read a post recently about how intimacy starts outside of the bedroom and I completely agree… here’s something I experienced recently with Liam…

I have found it is super easy to get caught up in the to-do’s of life, to put your relationship on the back burner time and time again,

Saying to yourself I’ll get to it once I’ve done the things but the to do list is never done and at the end of the day you’re too exhausted to prioritise together time

And so you put it off… again.

Often I would wonder why am I doing this, why am I not prioritising our connection time???

Yesterday, Liam comes into the kitchen to give me a kiss goodbye but when I lean in, I don’t feel him really kiss me and so I mention it to him…

He leans back in and really kisses me.

And when I think he’s done he kisses me again and it make me giggle a real feminine giggle

It’s like he found the doorway into my heart, into my feminine, knocking me out of my masculine energy in such a beautiful way.

I noticed for the remainder of the day I felt softer, more patient, more present, at ease and when Liam got home, I felt connected to him, I felt this pull to be with him, to cuddle, to be in his energy more…

Pretty interesting to notice how something simple like a kiss, the right kind of kiss, can completely shift your relationship

And it’s not just the kiss but how are you showing up in your relationship…

How can you start to prioritise connection and intimacy outside of the bedroom in small ways throughout the day so that you actually want and DESIRE more connection time

Where it doesn’t feel like another chore on the list, it’s a desire, you look forward to it, you yearn for it

And naturally it becomes a priority no matter how tired you are because you feel the nourishment of this time together

❤️