What blocks us from experiencing pleasure during birth
I believe birth is designed to be pleasurable, ecstatic, orgasmic even… but what blocks us from experiencing pleasure during birth is years of conditioning, deep beliefs and fears, and resistance.
The more I contemplate on my birth experience the more I realise how deeply connected this experience is to all of life.
Life is designed to be pleasurable also but what blocks us from this pleasure???
Yep, you guessed it…
Years of conditioning, deep beliefs and fears, and resistance.
If we could learn the art of surrender, the art of choosing pleasure, joy and bliss… then we could experience life and birth very differently.
I’m now seeing life through the lens on birth. You see we are birthing, creating, planting seeds all of the time. And so whether you have birthed a physical human or not, you have experienced many forms of birth and will continue to do so.
I see each challenge that arises day to day as a contraction or what I prefer to describe as a wave.
Each contraction or wave is temporary.
The more you can surrender the smoother the wave will flow, the more enjoyable the experience can be.
In birth, each wave brings you closer to the birth of your baby, to having that little human in your arms.
In life, each wave is bringing you closer to the insight, the healing, the growth, the manifestation, the creation, the connection, self-discovery… or something else truly divine and magical.
But too often we get caught up in fears and stories and we resist the wave, we resist the process, and this creates pain and suffering.
It’s important to know that none of this is wrong. It’s simply experience.
Through pain and suffering we can also learn incredible lessons, receive incredible insight and gifts.
But we don’t have to take that route time and time again. You can choose pleasure, you can choose joy, you can choose bliss.
By mastering the art of surrender, self-responsibility and trust.
By doing the inner work to shed the conditioning, transform your beliefs and stories, meet your fears, and come home to your truth.
When you are navigating something challenging in your life, remind yourself “This is a wave, this too shall pass” and ask yourself “What is here for me, what can I learn/receive from this, how can I surrender to this experience”
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Leading up to my birth I felt something incredibly HUGE shifting within me and I knew this would completely transform my life and my business.
I now have this deep desire to support women and couples through their birth process.
Whether you’re planning to have a baby, pregnant, postpartum or your children are grown and you know there’s healing from your birth experience you long for…
I desire to support you to heal and integrate past wounding, reclaim your sovereignty and personal power, and master the art of surrender so that you can experience more love, pleasure, intimacy and joy in your life and relationships.
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