Do you feel supported in your relationship?

Do you feel supported in your relationship?

For the longest time I told myself the story that I wasn’t supported.

I didn’t feel supported by anyone or anything… I felt completely alone like I could only ever rely on myself… Everyone else eventually and continuously let me down.

And this is the exact experience I continued to have in my life.

In all areas of my life I continued to see how I wasn’t supported and it poked at the very tender wound that was buried deep inside.

It wasn’t until I began to delve into the deeper layers of this over the past couple of years that I realised just how deep this wound and this story went.

It’s a wound I continue to heal and integrate one day at a time, one step at a time, one layer at a time.

I’ve been sharing and relating a lot of my sharing to my recent birth experience because this experience has been truly profound and deeply transformative and has opened me up to so much that I can barely put into words and so slowly I am able to find some words to express my experience and share what I have learned.

In my first birth to my son, I did not feel supported at all and I resented my partner deeply for it.

I blamed and projected for months and months.

I was so hurt by my birth experience, by the stories that I created from this experience and by the lack of support I received.

This resentment toward my partner grew and grew and tore us apart, there were many times I thought of (and even threatened) leaving.

It was all coming from this deep hurt, this deep trauma, not just the birth trauma but the trauma of not being supported in my most vulnerable days.

When trauma goes unresolved it grows, it festers, it creates more and more layers and this impacts our life and our relationships.

You may wonder why you can’t seem to figure out the relationship, attract the right person, stop having the same conversation, stop the triggers, trust yourself, trust another, really let someone in…

If you are struggling in your relationship, chances are there is something much deeper at play, and there is an invitation to journey within to discover what that is… And to meet the parts of you the deeply desire to be seen, heard, acknowledged, supported.

Over the past 3.5 years since my first birth experience I have been on one truly profound journey of self-discovery, healing, death and rebirth.

Liam and I journeyed deep together and found our way back to one another after one of the most challenging experiences.

In my recent birth, I experienced the most tremendous support, not only from my partner but from my birthing team, my mother, myself, and God, the Universe, the Divine

I felt so much support throughout my entire journey and I believe this all came to be because of the tremendous work I have done over the years.

This allowed me to heal on an even deeper level the trauma I experienced in that first birth, the pain of the disconnect in my relationship post that first birth and sooooo much more.

The inner work I speak about isn’t just work for me anymore… It’s a way of being, it’s no longer optional, it’s who I am, I am deeply devoted to this work and will forever be.

It’s not easy.
It’s essential.
It’s divine.

This journey began for me when I felt like I didn’t want to live anymore, I didn’t want to be on earth, I was in too much pain.

I said to myself… “There has to be more to life. I am going to find something to live for.”

I truly believe I have found what I was looking for and so much more and I continue to find more and more and more.

There is so much available to you.
You are destined for greatness.
You are destined to thrive.
If you desire it.

I have a new program starting June 1st to support you in thriving in your relationships, to release resentment, cultivate deep appreciation and change the stories that may be keeping you stuck so that you can LIBERATE yourself and experience deeper connection within yourself and with your loved ones.

I am currently offering this program for only $111 to make it more accessible for people to get this support. This offer ends tomorrow. The investment for this program will go up to $444 May 18th.

There will be multiple Q&A sessions so that you can receive personalised support as you navigate these deep layers.

If you would like to join me for my Deeply Connected Couples Program or have any questions, DM me <3